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HOT GIRL SUMMER

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Monday Poll

Poll: Many single women act aggressive and say they just want sex, but really want a long-term relationship. That’s me/I would never

Poll: This weekend, what kind of a date are you looking for? Soul Match/Fun Night.

Poll: Single men are confused about dating in this #MeToo time. No way/Every day

Multiple Choice Poll: Chose your main ingredient to a healthy relationship:

-Respect                                                                                 

-Compassion

-Kindness

-Reciprocity

-Patience

-Empathy

-Gratitude

Multiple Choice Poll: Choose the main killer of your relationships:

-Contempt

-Invalidation

-Dismissiveness

-Minimization

-Gaslighting

-Devaluation

-Entitlement

Free Advice (Maybe one day a week we could post “DM a question you’d like to ask a therapist and I’ll answer them in a future post.” I pulled the ones below from girlcfs

So I started going out with this amazing guy, but I got wasted one night and woke up in his best friend’s bed. I don’t know what happened and I feel like a hoe.

Advice:

I won’t see my boyfriend for a few months, I’m worried one of us will cheat.

Advice:

My ex ignores me even though we see each other at church every week and he stares at me.

Advice:

I’m really good friends with my ex. But my boyfriend wants me to cut ties. I’m so conflicted.

Advice:

What are the stages of dating?

Advice:

How can I tell if my date is a narcissist? Are there a few questions I can ask that would get to the heart of it?

Advice:

Can a narcissist be fixed?

Advice:

I’m drowning in student debt and it’s all I can think about. Help.

Advice:

I’ve had a lot of deaths in my family this year and I can’t stop worrying about it. It’s affecting all aspects of my life.

Advice:

My white boyfriend thinks that because he’s dating me, a black woman, he can’t be racist, but he is sometimes. How do we talk about this?

Advice:

My mom texts me and expects me to answer her soon (I’m 23 and work full time). Sometimes I can’t and sometimes I forget. What can I do because she gets sad or mad.

Advice:

Because the climate is going to shit I think our life on earth will end soon. I just want to do whatever I can to enjoy it while I can. My parents think I should be responsible and plan for my future.

Advice:

It’s Totally Normal

Are you sick of dating apps and running out of ideas on how to find the right person? What advice do you give people, Shawdi?

If someone says you’re their soulmate on the first date, it’s normal to feel uneasy. That could be a red flag.

If someone spends the majority of your first date monologuing and doesn’t ask about you, it’s normal to feel uncomfortable. That’s a huge red flag.